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Employees' Top
Likes and Dislikes
Leadership
Tip of the Month by Ron Jasniowski
Before I put on a one-day seminar for a client, I ask a lot of
questions. There is one question that all too often stumps my
clients. What would your employees say if I were to ask them,
“What are the top likes and dislikes you have about
working here?” Nearly
half of my clients say, “That is a good question, I don’t know.”
Occasionally I get permission to ask
employees on all three shifts what their top likes and dislikes
are about working for their current employer. Even though this is
very spontaneous and they have no idea about my specialty, they
frequently say something like, "My manager always criticizes what
I do wrong, and rarely appreciates what I do right." But their
manager usually denies this
and claims to express appreciation
frequently.
What's going on? Two things. First, managers have an innate desire to help others improve
and frequently ask employees to work on their shortcomings
immediately after expressing appreciation. When managers
insert "but ... you still can do better" within their appreciation, managers
walk away feeling they expressed appreciation and employees walk
away feeling they were criticized.
Appreciation
needs to be expressed in a way that is 100% positive. Do not mix
criticism with appreciation! Separate the two and always address
each promptly.
Second,
managers typically need less appreciation than employees. When
managers express appreciation a few times a month, they feel that
is adequate. It is not. Subordinates need more appreciation than
superiors ... it's part of the nature of the positions.
Children constantly look to elders for affirmation. If they don't get it, they are
demoralized. Part of adulthood, is needing less affirmation, but
it doesn't cease. When your employees go the extra mile without
your acknowledgment or appreciation, over time this demoralizes
them. During times of lack of communication, people often think
the worst. Each day your employees might be thinking: "My manager
doesn't like me or the work I do. Good performance or average
performance makes no difference to my manager."
Annual reviews are no substitute for
regular feedback. Affirm your employees strengths frequently and
if they have some shortcomings that are holding them back, let
them know occasionally. Also ask your employees what their top
workplace likes and dislikes are. Then ask them for their thoughts
of how you might make life at work better for them. Most of your
employees probably never had a manager who expressed that kind of
concern. Employees have a lot of respect for managers who express
genuine interest in their needs and concerns.
Unappreciated employees are our most perishable resource.
--Ron Jasniowski ©2002
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